Jada Pinkett Smith posted this yesterday on facebook in response to many of the people focused on whether or not she and Will Smith have an open relationship. Let me know what you all think?  

Open marriage?

Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards…

There are so many articles out there that give you the…

Before i get into this post too deep, I'd like to share this quote by Jada Pinkett Smith about how she feels about blended families. 

"A letter to a friend:

Blended families are NEVER easy, but here's why I don't have a lot of sympathy for your situation because... we CHOOSE…

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Successful relationships are made up of two individuals that know who they are and have a great sense of self-worth.  Each individual comes to the table with unique qualities that make them who they are and these unique qualities are what aids in building the foundation for a great relationship.  Our…

It is rare that I would actually recommend that couples break up in order to solve their problems. Unfortunately there are a few reasons that I believe you should let an unhealthy relationship go.  My reason for this is that relationships, while they have their ups and downs, should be healthy for both parties but once they become toxic, no one wins.…

Unfortunately in today's society people have turned dating into "pseudo-marriage."  What they are doing, in my opinion, is equivalent to giving a job to someone they haven't interviewed and that they don't know if the new employee even wants the job.  In my opinion most people just don't know the…

The moment I learned about the fact that you could "poke" someone through Facebook, I knew relationship courting would be taken to a whole new level. It was an easy way to flirt with someone, and wink at them from a distance without the pain of rejection if by chance they didn't "poke" you back or respond in…

If you're like me, you get tired of opening your Facebook and seeing women you know reaching for attention.  They're either posting the oh so seductive "ass shot" of themselves or saying provocative things just to get a little attention from…

Oh goodness, winter is here again and it's time for many of us to hide away in our homes in anxious anticipation of spring's arrival. Many of us feel this way about the winter season and because of this we put a chill on many of our activities.  Fortunately, cold temps are no reason to put the freeze on our love lives.  Here are some wonderful winter dates to keep…

Let's just be honest about the world we live in. We live in a digital age where people are increasingly meeting each other through the internet. And if you're marriage-minded, you may really want to think about dating online. According to a new survey commissioned by Match.com, more than twice as many couples who married last year met through online…

Are you looking for some creative date ideas for the upcoming fall season? Take advantage of new, exciting, and memory-building ways to take advantage of the new and cooler season with your honey with the following ideas:

Hiking: I recently bought some hiking pants and waterproof…

Every woman knows what it is like to wonder if a guy is into her. The question plays around in the mind like an annoyance that simply won't go away until it is answered. "Does he like me? Does he not like me? Did he give me any signals to indicate that he wants to be with me?" It's not like we…

Why do men cheat in relationships? How powerful is the allure of another woman that would incline a man in a relationship to want to pursue her? Should you blame the other woman, or should you blame your man for cheating on you with her (or both)? Are men naturally inclined to cheat? Or are men pressured by…

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At a time when interracial relationships are increasingly accepted and on the rise across the United States, more non-black men are expressing interest in dating black women but are curious re: how to court and date black women. (If you don't believe it, check out online forums and Q&A websites…

I'm going to come right out and say it: Some women have an unhealthy infatuation with the notion of a prince charming: an absolutely dashing man packed with charm, credentials, the best looks, and financial stability. In essence, he is the perfect man to settle down with forever and ride off into the…

Even though we live in the year 2012, many people still struggle with the idea of interracial dating. It is a term loaded with assumptions, beliefs, history, law, statistics, and strong opinion. For example, I had a discussion with a white man in his 20s who told me that he was dating a woman who…

In a recent (and quite popular) Cafe Belle article, I explained that good men are watching you. Today, I ask you: Is your attitude keeping good men away?…