Dear Cafe Belle: I have a great relationship with my boyfriend, but he is starting to irk me when it comes to my hair. I told him that I would like to consider going natural, but he told me that he prefers my hair with a perm and as long as possible. I have brought up the topic every now and then, and he just makes a face aIthough haven't done the big chop yet, and I haven't started transitioning to natural hair, but I would like to (despite what he thinks). What do you…

Q.  For the past year, my fiancé has been unemployed.  I try to encourage him and give him leads on jobs, but nothing really of substance has come through yet.  Financially, our plans to marry in a year are destroyed, and I think he believes I’m losing respect for him.  What…