I think it's safe to say that Kris and I both are pretty driven people.  That applies to our careers, our relationship as well as our hobbies. The funny part about that is, I believe life knows that we are motivated to constantly grow and succeed.  It's like no matter how far we come and how much we achieve the road…

In this clip Steve Harvey discusses the notorious 90 day rule that has so many people up in arms.  Please let us know what you think.…

Jada Pinkett Smith posted this yesterday on facebook in response to many of the people focused on whether or not she and Will Smith have an open relationship. Let me know what you all think?  

Open marriage?

Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards…

There are so many articles out there that give you the…

Before i get into this post too deep, I'd like to share this quote by Jada Pinkett Smith about how she feels about blended families. 

"A letter to a friend:

Blended families are NEVER easy, but here's why I don't have a lot of sympathy for your situation because... we CHOOSE…

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It is said that communication is the key to success in relationships.  However, without patience, communication can…

Successful relationships are made up of two individuals that know who they are and have a great sense of self-worth.  Each individual comes to the table with unique qualities that make them who they are and these unique qualities are what aids in building the foundation for a great relationship.  Our…

It is rare that I would actually recommend that couples break up in order to solve their problems. Unfortunately there are a few reasons that I believe you should let an unhealthy relationship go.  My reason for this is that relationships, while they have their ups and downs, should be healthy for both parties but once they become toxic, no one wins.…

Oftentimes a lot of us get complacent in our relationships, no longer indulging in the spark of courtship or love that makes our heart go pitter patter. It's easy to get so used to your partner that the idea of romance with them is more of a memory more so than a current agenda. To make your relationship more…

I have to give a round of applause to online dating companies and their advertisements that splash the internet and television these days. They definitely know how to sell the idea of "I will be so much happier in my life when I find the [fill in the blank] of my dreams." Great advertising, but the…

The moment I learned about the fact that you could "poke" someone through Facebook, I knew relationship courting would be taken to a whole new level. It was an easy way to flirt with someone, and wink at them from a distance without the pain of rejection if by chance they didn't "poke" you back or respond in…

Valentine's Day is right around the corner, and it's time to start planning! Forget a dinner and a movie this year, and have some fun doing something fun and unique that you'll remember forever.

Whether you are single or in a couple, you can celebrate the day of love in your own unique way. If you're…

If you're like me, you get tired of opening your Facebook and seeing women you know reaching for attention.  They're either posting the oh so seductive "ass shot" of themselves or saying provocative things just to get a little attention from…

Oh goodness, winter is here again and it's time for many of us to hide away in our homes in anxious anticipation of spring's arrival. Many of us feel this way about the winter season and because of this we put a chill on many of our activities.  Fortunately, cold temps are no reason to put the freeze on our love lives.  Here are some wonderful winter dates to keep…

Let's just be honest about the world we live in. We live in a digital age where people are increasingly meeting each other through the internet. And if you're marriage-minded, you may really want to think about dating online. According to a new survey commissioned by Match.com, more than twice as many couples who married last year met through online…

More often now than ever before, I hear women talk about single, ambitious, caring, and attractive black men as if they are a figment of the imagination or a Tyler Perry movie concept. In light of today's stereotype that black men cannot commit to black women or are not economically compatible with black women,…

I'm going to come right out and say it: Some women have an unhealthy infatuation with the notion of a prince charming: an absolutely dashing man packed with charm, credentials, the best looks, and financial stability. In essence, he is the perfect man to settle down with forever and ride off into the…

Even though we live in the year 2012, many people still struggle with the idea of interracial dating. It is a term loaded with assumptions, beliefs, history, law, statistics, and strong opinion. For example, I had a discussion with a white man in his 20s who told me that he was dating a woman who…