In this clip Steve Harvey discusses the notorious 90 day rule that has so many people up in arms.  Please let us know what you think.…

If you're like me, you get tired of opening your Facebook and seeing women you know reaching for attention.  They're either posting the oh so seductive "ass shot" of themselves or saying provocative things just to get a little attention from…

Every woman knows what it is like to wonder if a guy is into her. The question plays around in the mind like an annoyance that simply won't go away until it is answered. "Does he like me? Does he not like me? Did he give me any signals to indicate that he wants to be with me?" It's not like we…

In a recent (and quite popular) Cafe Belle article, I explained that good men are watching you. Today, I ask you: Is your attitude keeping good men away?…

Are you already brainstorming for a great Valentine's Day gift for your beau, but you don't know what to get him? Don't despair! You can get your guy a Valentine's Day gift that is not only "male-appropriate", but also something that he will enjoy!

First, let's start off with some tips on shopping for…

Artwork by: WAK

One of the biggest complaints among black women today is that great men are hard to find, especially great black men. In my opinion, there are two specific ways to tackle this…

Since I announced my engagement this year, I’ve noticed that I’ve been getting a few more phone calls, texts and Facebook messages that have been congratulatory – but with a twist.  A twist?  Yes, a seemingly strange twist.  A lot of women from my past have been messaging me their congratulations, yet…

There is a lot of buzz today dismissing black men and their ability to be equally-matched partners for black women. The buzz tries to argue that black women should simply forget about black men (as if they are a lost cause) and focus more on dating outside of their race. (I addressed this buzz on Cafe Belle in two recent articles:  "I Am Black, Fabulous and Single -…

1 Corinthians 13: 4-8, 13

 ⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

 ⁸ Love…

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It is very difficult these days to find women who can appreciate a good man. Maybe it's because they are so used to the bad treatment from men, they don't know how to deal with the good ones. Unfortunately once they realize it, the opportunity has already past, and vice versa.

As men and…

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