More often now than ever before, I hear women talk about single, ambitious, caring, and attractive black men as if they are a figment of the imagination or a Tyler Perry movie concept. In light of today's stereotype that black men cannot commit to black women or are not economically compatible with black women,…

There is a lot of buzz today dismissing black men and their ability to be equally-matched partners for black women. The buzz tries to argue that black women should simply forget about black men (as if they are a lost cause) and focus more on dating outside of their race. (I addressed this buzz on Cafe Belle in two recent articles:  "I Am Black, Fabulous and Single -…