Spreading "hate" amongst our own..... (mini rant)

Blessings... Before I get started.. I just want to say the the opinions expressed here are MY own and in no way intended to offend anyone!!!

What the heck is wrong with our black community? Our black society as a whole? Everywhere I look and almost everything I read.. from news articles to blogs..we are destroying our own by being hateful and hurtful. It seems like we can't say or do anything nice for each other. IMO we are the only race that would rather support our "counter parts" than support ourselves.

The black population make up the majority of the beauty industry with hair products (wigs, weaves etc..) BUT if you look around... how many black owned BSS are in your community... NONE. They are all ran by another race who haven't the slightest idea about black hair...

How many black own resturants are there? Clothing stores? We don't recycle our money amongst ourselves. For example: mexicans shop at mexican stores.. africans shop at african stores..indians shop at indian stores... but we can't even keep a store open long enough...why.. because we rob ourselves of opportunities!!

 

Look at the entertainment industry... there are only a hand full of "us" in the spot light... but we are also the ones putting them down... especially if they do...say.. or wear something that we don't like or approve of.

Look at Beyonce for example... none of us know her from a can of paint... yet we are the first to judge her because of her music.. her looks..... "she isn't black enough" ...she is trying to be white" ... "why she wearing a lacefront instead of her natural hair".... Then there is "Gabby" from the movie Precious... "look at how big she is"...  "she is to darK"... so on and so forth.. I hope you get the point.

 

Until we as a people learn to support our own we will always be three steps behind...IMO Wiliie Lynch said this would happen.. and it did. Only we can break this cycle... we need to start spreading love NOT hate among ourselves... we need to rotate our money in our own community through supporting black owned businesses... supporting each other.. don't just TALK about it... Be about it!!!... It's time to wake up!!!  (rant over...lol)

Thanks for reading.... HHJ and stay blessed...


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Comment by Bluebutterfly on June 25, 2011 at 7:11pm
Thanks you so much @ Kris & Kwan.. it just frustrates me to no end how "we" step on each other just to get to the top or what we perceive as "the top". Kwan you are so right when you say that our families have lost their identities... so many of our black men are in prison... young men growing up without fathers.. young women looking for acceptence in the wrong places... we don't want to help each other because we don't want the next person to have "more" than we have... Everyone was so excited when we got a black president.. but having a black president doesn't change the fact that acceptance starts at home.... omg.. I could go on and on...  but I won't...lol Thanks Kris for creating this site!! It is a VERY classy and relaxed place where I and I know others feel comfortable. A place of support and encouragement!!!   Stay blessed...

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Comment by Kris on June 25, 2011 at 10:54am
This is a great post. I agree that there is too much hate and not enough support and encouragement within the black community. That is a part of the reason why Cafe Belle came into existence - to be a place where women of color can come together and support/encourage each other in various ways. The movement to making the black community a lot better starts with every individual, every family, and it goes from there. Everyone needs to make a conscious decision to take action towards a better community - supporting black-owned businesses, and find ways to uplift each other. There will always be haters out there, but the increased number of uplifters in the community will help drown the haters out.

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